DID YOU HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE ??

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(a) Although none of us know how many more days we’ll have on earth, and there is no guarantee any of us will be alive tomorrow, of the more than 6 billion people living today, the vast majority of us will probably be alive tomorrow. In other words, it is more likely you will be alive in future years than it is likely that you will be dead.

(b) Experiencing sex with love is incredibly more meaningful than just experiencing sex for sex itself. In fact, many people I have counseled have told me that when they’ve had sex without love just to experience sexual relations, that they feel worse afterwards than they did before they had any sex at all. In fact, experiencing true love without sex is much more meaningful, lasting, and fulfilling than experiencing sex without love!

(c) If you had sex before marriage just to hurry up and experience it, most likely you’ll live long enough to live to regret it. Many people who have sex before marriage never do get married–even among those who intend to get married to their sexual partner in the future. If later you get married to someone else, the memories of having sex with the person you were not married with may clutter your mind while you are having sex with your future marriage partner. It’s not work it to seek short-term pleasure for the price of long-term regret.

(d) Do you love anyone in your family or in your circle of friends? Doing something thoughtful and kind for them can be so much more meaningful than having sex for sex sake before marriage. True love is caring for the needs of someone else. The most widely published book in human history teaches, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” In other words, you will receive more blessing by giving your love to you family and friends and even to strangers and acquaintances, than by seeing sex for sexual experience’s sake. (You may have guessed that the best selling book of all time is the Bible.)

(e) Movies, TV programs, novels, and the words to popular songs tend to glorify sexual relations, and make it seem like the most important thing in life. Experiencing sexual relations for yourself is marketed as a great goal. But the deepest satisfaction comes not from getting physical pleasure for yourself but in meeting a need of another person whom you love. You can meet the needs of others in many ways that do not include sex, and you can do this even if you never get married and never have sex. If you major on the most important satisfactions in life, you will probably be less concerned with hurrying up to have sex.

(f) Many devout Christian people I have counseled have told me that their greatest fulfillment and pleasure is to please God who created them. They say that they realize that God created sexual intercourse, that the Bible says sexual intercourse is good in marriage, and that it displeases God to have sex outside of marriage. So they remind themselves that pleasing God is more important to them than pleasing themselves. So even if they never get married and never have sex, pleasing God is much more important than pleasing themselves.

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SACHIN TENDULKAR & ANJALI -- A RIGHT EXAMPLE




Anjali Tendulkar, the young and lovely wife of Master Blaster Sachin is lucky, then you really have no idea what it’s to be the wife of Sachin Tendulkar. “He hasn’t spent Diwali at home since we got married. But it really doesn’t matter that it’s Diwali… any time he spends at home is great!”

It’s the same patient trait coupled with great compatibility that makes Anjali Sachin’s sweetheart. Once in a BBC interview when asked about his dream women, Sachin answered ‘my wife’ without batting an eyelid. Anjali’s ability to juggle her career - she is a practising paediatrician working at the JJ Hospital in Mumbai; her family - two children and a high profile husband is what makes her the ideal woman for the Little Master.

Incidentally, Anjali can never enjoy a game of cricket like most of us do. “I become nervous when he bats. So I prefer watching recordings of his match.” Believe it or not, there are several hardships being a celebrity wife. She had to wait almost till evening to wish Sachin on his 30th birthday. “We can only call up the Trinidad Hilton hotel where Sachin is staying in the evening, as by that time Sachin would be awake, to wish him his 30th birthday”.

Daughter of industrialist Ashok Mehta and his British wife, Anjali is four years elder to Sachin. But the age difference did not deter Sachin from proposing to her. The two met through common friends and before they knew it, they decided to tie the knot.

“Anjali manages everything in the house and I am really lucky to have her as a life partner, because when I go on the cricket ground I don’t have to think of anything else because I know she would handle everything to perfection,” Sachin said in an interview.

Even though Sachin hates to talk about his family, he never fails to give them their due. Once after a tremendous felicitation in Mumbai’s Wankhade Stadium, Sachin sheepishly returned to the dias on realizing that he forgotten to mention his wife.

"We`ve shared so many things together, which nobody else knows about but which are so important to me. I feel ashamed to have omitted her name and have come back to thank her because I`d like to go back home today!"

The couple is such sticklers to privacy and prefers being so low-key that so far no journalist has ever succeeded in doing an interview of his wife about their marriage. It is rumoured that he even refused to appear on the Simi Garewal show in which several personalities discussed their relationships and marriage.

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Be sincere. Compliment her on something you truly admire. Hollow compliments can often be sensed. A compliment that she knows you mean will have much more impact. This doesn't mean you can throw out a compliment and then get naked, but it is a good first step. The compliment should NOT be 'you have great knockers.' Go for the eyes, hair, intelligence, sense of humor, something along those lines. On the other hand, too many compliments can come off sounding insincere. One or two sincere compliments are best.


Listen to her. She will give you clues about what she likes. At some later time, you can show that you remember what she has said and it makes a difference to you. This will earn you big points.


Be real. Don't exaggerate to make yourself sound better. Don't tell her lies just because you think it will help. These things have a way of turning around and biting you.


Don't offer advice unless asked. It could come off sounding like you are telling her what to do. Just listen and be supportive.


Do not talk about sex unless she brings it up. This one is pretty self explanatory.


Don't act desperate. Just let things flow naturally. Desperation is an unappealing quality in either sex. Playing a little hard to get can actually be appealing.


Avoid talking about yourself too much. Let her talk and if she wants to know, she will ask. An ongoing conversation about how big your muscles are or how fast your car is will not score many points. Bragging about how well endowed you are is a big no-no too. On the other hand, silence doesn't work either. Look around and find something to talk about. Preferably about her.


Avoid letting your eyes wonder to other women when you are with her. Talking about other women or your ex are both no-no's too. If you are out with her, let her know you like being with her by respecting her feelings and keeping your eyes and mind on her.


Treat her with respect. Don't call her chick, broad, dude or any other name unless you have been together for a while and you come up with pet names for each other. Respect is crucial and a good woman will not be interested in sex with you until she knows you respect her. If a one night stand is what you have in mind, then don't lead her into believing you want a relationship with her. Playing with her feelings is cruel and something no one should do to anyone.


Don't make her feel like because you have spent money on her, she should sleep with you. Making her feel this way will generally have the opposite affect. All you have bought is her time and the opportunity to prove to her that you are worth a second look. The rest is up to you.

HINDU WEDDING RITUALS

The 13 steps form the core of a Vedic wedding ceremony

Vara Satkaarah

Reception of the bridegroom and his kinsmen at the entrance gate of the wedding hall where the officiating priest chants a few mantras and the bride's mother blesses the groom with rice and trefoil and applies tilak of vermilion and turmeric powder.

Madhuparka Ceremony

Reception of the bridegroom at the altar and bestowing of presents by the bride's father.

Kanya Dan

The bride's father gives away his daughter to the groom amidst the chanting of sacred mantras.

Vivah-Homa

The sacred fire ceremony ascertaining that all auspicious undertakings are begun in an atmosphere of purity and spirituality.

Pani-Grahan

The groom takes the right hand of the bride in his left hand and accepts her as his lawfully wedded wife.

Pratigna-Karan

The couple walk round the fire, the bride leading, and take solemn vows of loyalty, steadfast love and life-long fidelity to each other.

Shila Arohan

The mother of the bride assists her to step onto a stone slab and counsels her to prepare herself for a new life.

Laja-Homah

Puffed rice offered as oblations into the sacred fire by the bride while keeping the palms of her hands over those of the groom.
Parikrama or Pradakshina or Mangal Fera - The couple circles the sacred fire seven times. This aspect of the ceremony legalizes the marriage according to the Hindu Marriage Act as well custom.

Saptapadi

Marriage knot symbolized by tying one end of the groom's scarf with the bride's dress. Then they take seven steps representing nourishment, strength, prosperity, happiness, progeny, long life and harmony and understanding, respectively.

Abhishek

Sprinkling of water, meditating on the sun and the pole star.
Anna Praashan - The couple make food offerings into the fire then feed a morsel of food to each other expressing mutual love and affection.

Aashirvadah

Benediction by the elders.